Why You Suffer and How Coaching can Help
Psst…I’m going to let you in on a little secret about humans. We’re not all that different from one another. All humans. All careers. All races, genders, religions, etc. Even lawyers. We like to think we’re different and unique in our struggles and that no one understands us. But that’s not the truth. In fact, […]
Take Charge of Tracking Your Time
“Time, time, time, see what’s become of me While I looked around for my possibilities” – Simon & Garfunkel, Hazy Shade of Winter Time. The tedious task of tracking each 0.6 of your life. The demand, stress, and worry of billing enough daily and monthly to meet your boss’s expectations or your income needs if […]
How to Control the Controllables
Let’s be honest. Lawyers love having control. You have a case. Your aim is to win. You want to control as many variables as possible to make that outcome happen. You don’t want anyone or anything messing up your path from A to B. We all want control, certainty, and predictability. Our brain craves […]
12 Steps to Overcome a Moment of Overwhelm
You open your inbox, and there are 25 unread emails. You look at the files on your desk, and they are stacked 10 inches high. Your text messages are blowing up from clients, colleagues, and family members. The reminders ding on your phone – either ones you set or ones your firm sends to you. […]
Feed Your Fire Checklist
I have a new Feed Your Fire Checklist available for download. This blog is going to cover what it is, why it is important, and how to use it. Download Here Many lawyers come to me and they say things like “I am overwhelmed. There is not enough time. There’s too much to do. I […]
Feeding Your Fire
If you are tired of running a never-ending marathon of trying to prove you are good enough to everyone, then let’s stop the race. You can change this. The longest relationship you have in your life is with yourself. You spend more time with yourself than any other person and more time thinking about yourself […]
How thinking like a lawyer can be helping and hurting you at the same time
When we want to make changes in our lives, we look at changing our behaviors and our thoughts. If you want long-lasting transformation in your life, you have to target your thoughts and transform them.
Your Brain is Your Superpower for Change
If I asked you what is holding you back from having a career and life you love, what would be your answer? Would you look to factors at your firm, other people in your personal life, or client demands? Would you name stressors related to kids or finances?